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Lead with kindness and make tough calls
You know the decision. You know it will hurt someone. So you wait, and you are telling yourself you are waiting out of kindness.
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Insights, stories, and updates from the Kai team
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How to Make Friends as an Adult
How to Make Friends as an Adult (When You're Starting From Scratch in a New City)
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I was the steady one for about four years, and it nearly cost me the team
You are meant to be the steady one. You are also, currently, not steady. So you say nothing, which works right up until someone else admits they are struggling and you realise you…
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Why Kindness Should Be a Design Requirement
Kindness online isn't a nice-to-have — it's a design choice, and the data shows it. This post makes the case for why platforms that let cruelty go unchecked lose trust, users, and even advertisers, then scores the 10 biggest social platforms (Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, X, YouTube, Reddit, LinkedIn, Snapchat, Pinterest, and Discord) on a 1–100 "Kindness Preservation Score" — built from GLAAD's Social Media Safety Index, Pew Research survey data, peer-reviewed toxicity studies, and platform transparency reports. Pinterest and LinkedIn come out on top; X comes out dead last.
Social Media
How Much Screen Time Is Healthy? 2–4 Hours a Day for Adults
Experts recommend 2 hours of recreational screen time per day for adults, but the type of screen time matters more than the total. Here's the science and a realistic framework.
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The 10 Best Habit Tracker Apps of 2026 (and Why Most People Quit in Two Weeks)
A 2026 guide to the best habit tracker apps — Finch, Habitica, Streaks and more — plus the real reason most people quit in two weeks, and how to fix it.
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The “Personal Hero Experiment”
One sentence moved revision rates from 17 percent to 71 percent.
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Trust your gut and check the facts
Should I trust my gut? Ten specific cases, answered
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The five moves for anger, in the order they actually work
Someone talks over you in a meeting for the third time. Heat in your chest, jaw tight, a full sentence already loaded and ready to fire. You say nothing. Later you cannot remember…
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Both Can Be True: why you can’t argue your way out of a feeling
Your brain's oldest and most relentless job is running your body. Not thinking. Running your body.