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How we keep people safe
Kai remembers you. Not a transcript played back at you. The things that actually matter: what you care about, what you are working through, how you like to be spoken to, who is important in your life. We call that your Kai Passport.
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Show empathy and keep healthy boundaries
A friend calls, in pieces, for the fourth time this month. You care. You genuinely do. And you also feel your stomach drop when you see their name on the screen, and then feel…
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Name your feelings and be surprised by them
You would have told anyone that you were fine about your friend moving away. Then a song comes on in a supermarket and you are suddenly, embarrassingly close to tears next to the…
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Be confident and admit you don't know
Someone asks you a direct question in front of people who respect you. You know roughly the shape of the answer. You do not know the specifics. And you hear yourself producing…
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Stay calm and feel stress inside
Your hands are steady. Your voice is level. Your heart is going like a washing machine full of bricks and you are convinced everyone can hear it.
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Demand respect and give it first
You have been treated carelessly by someone, so you go into the next conversation with an edge in your voice. They hear the edge, get defensive, and behave carelessly again. You…
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Listen without judgment and challenge harmful ideas
Someone you like says something you think is genuinely harmful. You have two options in your head, and both are bad: nod along and hate yourself, or push back and detonate the…
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Have opinions and stay open to change
You said the thing confidently in a meeting. Three days later you have quietly realised you were wrong, and you now have to decide whether anyone finds out.
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Lead with kindness and make tough calls
You know the decision. You know it will hurt someone. So you wait, and you are telling yourself you are waiting out of kindness.